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Emotional intelligence 

I think emotional intelligence is part of dark psychology if that's even a thing.

Imagine having the ability to manipulate, not only others but yourself as well , only  in order to figure out what's going on with the world around you and what it is that is needed in order to survive,more like supply and demand .

Imagine having the ability to shape shift your spine,the internal space you must create, the energy you must master,the curiosity you must have  and the years of practice,not only to invade yourself but also have a silence glance of the emotional state of others,only to better arm yourself, to better navigate  the room as well.
It's more than a tool ,more than a copying mechanism ,it's more than a superpower. Emotionally intelligence doesn't come with age, you can only be aware that you have emotions intelligence. Like a muscle it's only gets stronger bigger, juicier as you feed it.  well how you feed emotional intelligence you ask.

Yes as you must  to ask ,am I feeding my copying strategies ?,or am I aware of my copying mechanism.
After all that's why we here to remember why we made the trip .

It's has  no beginning no end ,no one would tell for sure where it began or what created the need to have emotional intelligence. there are many reasons gaven to  why emotional intelligence exist .here are few examples  : dysfunctional family's, trauma and all of the  other swords.

Question is are we now today still creating emotional intelligence persons expressed as AI  , indirectly feeding them feelings , rather than creating and evolving new feelings ? 

New feelings equal new coping strategies and tactics right ?

Thank you.
Wendy 

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